Has anyone else noticed a slight increase in the pace of life and stress levels leading into Christmas? I find myself looking for an extra few hours each day to cram a little bit more in, get a few items ticked off the ‘To Do’ list, make sure I catch up with as many friends as possible before Christmas (over coffee and breakfast of course), start ordering presents online (is a pair of socks OK dad?), make sure I do pilates everyday (so I can start to resemble ???), and don’t even get me started on Christmas cards….

 

Just by writing the above I can feel an increase in my body tension. And this is where some mindfulness training conducted by Craig Hassed, GP and Lecturer at Monash University, has refreshed the importance of taking time out each day – otherwise we may end up looking like:

 

 

 

And I know we all want to look that sexy during the day right?!!!

 

My interpretation of mindfulness is paying attention in a particular way – your attention needs to be purposeful, in the present moment, and made in a nonjudgmental fashion. Within our current 24/7 society where we constantly train ourselves to ‘multi-task’, decrease our attention span by the year, and cram as much as possible into our daily existence, our ability to come back to the present moment is significantly decreasing.

 

But why the need to bring ourselves back to the moment? There are a whole heap of reasons!! These range from effective treatment of depression, improving our mental health, increasing sporting performance (athletes refer may be more familiar with the term ‘flow’ or ‘in the zone’ as opposed to mindfulness), and our overall wellbeing. Am you starting to get excited about mindfulness?!!!

 

Craig used a fantastic train metaphor in relation to mindfulness and our thoughts. Imagine you are standing on a train platform (feel free to use Platform 9 ¾ and add in Harry – I did) observing trains (with the trains being a metaphor for our thoughts; anyone else feel like they are at Grand Central station with how many thoughts we have whizzing around?). Now the trick is to observe our thoughts/trains without getting invested in them or jumping on board the train. A personal example that I found applicable was how for the past two years during my hip drama saga people are constantly asking, “How does your hip feel?”. All well and good. But it has resulted in constantly checking in to that area, and thereby, making the neural pathways and connections super sensitive and aware. Now I habitually check-in, and if I have a slight twinge of pain (no matter how minor), I found I was started to buy into my stories and jump on my hip drama train – “Crap, my hip is sore… I will have to ice when I get back… make sure I do my pilates… it will probably impact training tomorrow… dam my next physio and massage isn’t till next week so I won’t get any relief till then… shit I will need surgery again… the world is ending….”

 

 

 

And that was the thought pattern. Not too healthy right. Mindfulness is the ability for me to observe that my hip may be sore and go “OK, how does it feel right now?”, and then not jump on my story train. And it is taking some practice (they recommend about 30-40mins per day of mindfulness training for the treatment of severe depression and to change ingrained habits). Then we need to transfer this into our daily activities. Maybe taking a moment to listen to sounds in the distance, sounds close by use, listening to our breath. And if thoughts do arise, being curious and inquisitive but nonjudgmental.

 

And like everything else in life? If you want to be good at mindfulness, you need to practice! You aren’t going to become the Mahatma Gandhi overnight and be a spiritual leader by tomorrow; they don’t offer those type of courses found discounted by 75% on Scoopon. We can’t swallow a pill to make our thoughts melt away. We need to practice. Indeed, corny as it may be, the express train to mindfulness is closed, but the stairs are always open!

 

 

Till next time,

 

Ride safe, ride with a smile, ride in the moment,

Han